find one of my weeknesses, now time to solve it

1. Live without pretending. 

2. Love without depending. 


3. Listen without defending.


4. Speak without offending.

my weaknesses
jinx about talk that I want to
- I'm afraid of say something in front of people which it is important to me but not to others and it could have some impact to shock people, most of the thing is emotional things like

talk to girl, I'm thinking abut others thinking that they might misunderstand the situation

talk about unfair think, I don't want to talk to the person or people in front of innocence people who has nothing to do with the situation

the fact by that,
I cannot concentrate at something which I should and I want to. And my negative impacts others surround me.